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Everybody wants a fresh start. And I mean every single soul. Just think about it. You wish could always do something better. Be it relationships or any other part of life, there is always something that you could have done a tad bit better. If you had the opportunity to go back in time you would do and undo. Some people want a new start in life and completely erase their identity. They change their name and every thing about them. Some even go as far as Birthday date change, Falsify birth certificates and other things all in the bid to erase their pasts. For many it has helped them transition in life successfully.
In a relationship, I personally prefer complete honesty. Let me know before I find out. Some people believe what you don’t know wont kill you. I disagree but hey that’s my opinion.
Now my big question or wonder is this -Is it right to keep your past from your spouse? A lady who once was a junkie (drug addict) and a prostitute was trying to start over. She changed her name, changed location and started a brand new life. She met this great guy and as most love stories go, they fell in love and got married. The most interesting thing about this was that she didn’t tell him about her past. Rather, she went as far as telling lies to cover up her past. Many years past, she had a beautiful daughter.
One day she dropped of her daughter in school, her old pimp came under a disguise and cunningly kidnaped her daughter. Now no one knew (not even her) who had done such a thing. Her husband wondered what was going on. He had never offended anyone and to the best of his knowledge so did his wife. He always thought he had a great family, very active in the community and at church. There was no reason for him to be a victim of such. After many investigations, the truth came out. His saint of a wife was not always a saint. The truth was finally out in the open. His now church going, beautiful wife was formerly a notorious prostitute and junkie. She had even done jail time for drug possession.
His heart was broken! How could she lie to him? What other lies has she told? Is there even a truth to anything she had said to him? This nearly ended their home. Now we all know how difficult it is for men to stomach such shocking news. He blamed his wife for the kidnap of their daughter. He threatened to kill her if their daughter doesn’t show up alive. The mere sight of her disgusted him. At a point, he nearly raped her in one of his drunken episode. The “bottle” became his comfort.
Sometimes nosey relatives and in-laws hire private investigators to snoop around the Childs spouse’s past. They don’t like you and they looking for every possible way to get out their son or daughters life so they start snooping around for dirt. And boy do they find out a lot. Criminal Records, Changed identity, secret children, and others. Rather than lose everything to a lie isn’t it wise to just tell the truth? I’ve heard of lies to protect. I’ve never seen a lie help anyone but hey the floor is open what do you think? Do you think its wise to lie in a relationship, just to protect? Please share your opinions below i'd like to know.